I'm sure you could stand to "groom" your boyfriend a bit more. I know he's great, but maybe he's just a bit rough around the edges, and you want to steer him in the right direction 😉
The problem is most girls go about it in the absolute wrong way. This only causes guys to withdrawal, and become more distant and resentful, and in fact the behavior your set out to change usually gets worse!
Why is this?
Guys do not like being told what to do. Girls typically are much more receptive to negotiating, and listening to suggestions from their boyfriends. Guys on the other hand are not programmed to respond to direct confrontation very well. Think of it like this, back in the cave man days, if a man was confronted, it would usually mean that it was time to fight. Guys still have this evolutionary programming, so … Read More